First My Story.... It was our fault, I think. We were having new eaves troves put in but, there was a nest behind our old ones. Once it was discovered by the men installing the pieces, we asked that the nest be removed, believing that birds would be trapped behind the new work if the... Continue Reading →
If you've chosen to estrange yourself from your parents, family or friends, remember that one day, there may be regrets. You cannot turn back the hands of time and re-do things.
When someone estranges themselves from others when there's no abuse or neglect, it's often because their histories have been re-written or someone else is behind it all. Parents are not the ones to blame in these cases.
Why parents now need to speak up against their adult children's estrangement.
I've been on both sides of the coin in every conceivable way imaginable. As a child, I saw both love and abuse. Being a parent, meant that I gave up a lot in order to be a parent while still wrestling with my own past demons as well as trying to change how I parented,... Continue Reading →
When someone sets out to control and manipulate someone else, they feel threatened by anyone else who poses any type of a real or imagined threat to their hold. That's when the adrenalin, fear and panic show through with their actions, thoughts, anger and insults towards that person. https://www.lifecoachcode.com/2014/04/13/shocking-truth-people-hide-behind-masks/ What happens when someone is insecure... Continue Reading →
Yes, I am perfect. I have no flaws, faults and warts. I have no issues and never will. If you were thinking to yourself, "she's nuts! Everyone has flaws, faults and warts," you'd be right and not ready to purchase that swamp land that I have put aside to sell to whomever believes I am... Continue Reading →
If you're the parent of an estranged adult child or you are an adult child, thinking of disposing of your parents....watch this video, please. Disclaimer: I am NOT a professional so, decide for yourself. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uPj3NsPYXHw&t=4s
A commenter has written on another piece that I couldn't have raised my daughter with any type of self-love or acceptance otherwise, she wouldn't be taking on the man-child's thinking patterns that she's living with while estranging herself from me and her father as well as all of her family and former friends. I had... Continue Reading →