Be A Little More Selfish

"Generation A" was taught to take care of others and be respectful towards society in general and totality. Negativity was used to punish them if they didn't cooperate but, they often did because it was "the right thing to do".  They were brought up to serve others and their needs first. "Generation B" (Generation A's... Continue Reading →

You Don’t Matter

  1) You cannot make people care about you who don't care 2) When you don't matter, you don't matter. You can't change that fact. 3) Being caring, kind and nice to others doesn't necessarily get anywhere good. 4) The care, concern and effort you put into others will likely not be returned. Lesson learned... Continue Reading →

Celebrating Mother’s Or Father’s Day When Your Only Child Is Estranged From You

Mother's Day has passed and Father's Day is upon us but, what do you do if your only child has estranged herself from both of their parents?  Do you forget the day, treating it as any other day or, do you embrace the fact that you did all that you could as a parent and... Continue Reading →

User Abuser Or Estranged Children Hurt Us As Parents

  When your child has chosen to estrange themselves from your life completely, missing Mother's Days, all holidays and your birthdays go by one by one, signifying that you're aging more by the day or especially, in times of crises within yourself or your world, there's a lot of heartache and sorrow to deal with.... Continue Reading →

Shocking Discovery: You Don’t Owe Anyone Anything Nor Do They Owe You

Mother/Saint Teresa wasn't as completely unselfish as what we've been made to believe or she would have us believe.  Are you gasping at that statement yet? I'm sure that you are if you know anything about the woman. Yes, no doubt whatsoever she did many wonderful things for others throughout her life and devoted herself... Continue Reading →

How To Deal With An Estranged Child

It's Mother's Day but, I have a lot of negative emotions as a mother.  It's not just today but rather, it's every day.  I haven't seen my only child in over a year and a half.  Unfortunately, neither have her friends nor the rest of her family on both sides as she chose to be... Continue Reading →

Don’t Let Other People Whine On Your Shoulder Constantly

Breathe. Breathe in through your nose deeply now, exhale through your mouth slowly. Feeling better? No? Do it again and keep doing it until you start to feel a bit more relaxed. MELLOW, mellow....mellow. Do you have people in your life who seem to keep talking about the same problems, over and over again but,... Continue Reading →

Do Unto Others As They Do Unto You?

I was watching tv about a year ago when I stumbled upon a rather comical scene in an old movie.  It caught not only my attention and ear but, it made me both chuckle and think at the same time. "Do unto others as they do unto you," a young boy said, practising what he thought... Continue Reading →

Serenity In Life

Life and living it have a way of teaching us all lessons.  Some are not what we want to learn but rather what we need to learn.  Not all of Life is under our control just as most other people are not under our control.  That's a hard lesson to learn but one that needs... Continue Reading →

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