Professional Therapists And The Internet Are Filled With Rants, Blame And Improper Mental Health Diagnoses Towards Parents

AUDIO VERSION: (Transcript below for those who prefer to read but,...it's a bit different than the Audio Version)   There is so much empathy out there for many spoiled/entitled children that society tends to place blame on the parent first versus the child. After all, it has to be the parent's faults, right?  It can't... Continue Reading →

Adult Child Estrangement Is Much Like An Adoptive Child Wondering Why They Were Put Up For Adoption

AUDIO VERSION: (For those who prefer to listen.  Transcript below but, may differ ever so slightly from Audio version) First of all, let it be said that under NO circumstances am I saying that Adoption issues are the same as Child Estrangement issues.  They are 2 different animals.  One child has no choice while the... Continue Reading →

Bullsh*t To The “Experts” On Adult Child Estrangement Tips

There's a lot of articles out in Cyberland, written by so-called "experts" about estranged adult children and how to deal with them.  Most of them are centred around the idea of the parent taking blame for the estrangement even if those parents have no clue as to what they did that could have caused it... Continue Reading →

Not Even A Birthday Wish From Our Child: The Estranged Adult Child

We were out for dinner with friends.  It was my husband's birthday.  We'd had a great time all night. Then, hit the moment where my friend and I began a real conversation about a topic that I find hard to deal with.  Our daughter. "She didn't even text her father a Happy Birthday," I said... Continue Reading →

Making Poor Choices For Too Long Makes You Appear Stupid

My home was always a revolving door for the neighbourhood children.  One was coming as one was leaving until I couldn't keep my eyes open for one more second in a day.  My grocery shopping bill every week, reminded me of a cafeteria for children with juices, treats and wholesome foods that I'd feed every... Continue Reading →

Take Control of You

The little 4 year old girl who lives next-door to me with her parents is a cutie.  I mean a really adorable looking little girl with light brown or dirty blond hair and the fairest blue/green eyes you've ever seen.  She lights up a room with her beauty and it would be tremendously hard to... Continue Reading →

For The Adult Child Who Neglects, Abuses Or Is Estranged From Their Parents

A lot of adult children will balk at what is said here because it's not what you feel or think or have been trained to think or feel.  That's ok.  You may have been literally trained into believing that you have the upper hand by either your parents or someone else.  For the most part,... Continue Reading →

Be A Little More Selfish

"Generation A" was taught to take care of others and be respectful towards society in general and totality. Negativity was used to punish them if they didn't cooperate but, they often did because it was "the right thing to do".  They were brought up to serve others and their needs first. "Generation B" (Generation A's... Continue Reading →

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