I know that there's pain and hurt behind the anger on both sides of the story and yet, I've been getting a flurry of comments, emails and notes from those who have estranged themselves from their parents and, or families. It's sad to say the least to hear some of their stories as some of... Continue Reading →
When you walk away from someone or many people, you're walking away for possibly ever. Remember that what matters now to you may not be the same down the road. Things change as do people. Life goes on with or without you no matter how powerful you may think that you are at the moment... Continue Reading →
I'm also ready for my close-up Mr. DeVille! Blake: "If I sit with a psychedelic drug in my hands and body every day, all day long, do I get to tell someone else that they can't drink alcohol? Do I have the right to tell other people that they have to put up with my... Continue Reading →
Wondering why your adult has estranged from you is like wondering why the sky isn't purple polka dotted. One cannot use rational thinking to deal with irrationality.
When you no longer serve a purpose to someone, you walk alone. Words from Actress, Shirley MacLaine that prove that people take what they want but, walk away when it doesn't suit them or their needs nor, expectations. Sad. Estrangement is a form of taking and walking away in a lot of cases. I have... Continue Reading →
Are you choosing to remain a victim of your adult child's or children's choice to estrange themselves from you? What you can do about it.
Parable:There was a woman who found a snake by the side of the road, half dead. Not being able to pass by something alive and allow it to die, she picked the snake up, took it home and nursed it lovingly back to health. One day while gardening, the woman had carried the snake out,... Continue Reading →