What Do Parents Do When Estranged From

It’s not that I have all good days and am completely over it but, estrangement is much like a punishment to parents by their offspring. I’ve spent my fair time in grieving over a lost child-turned adult. She’s clearly allowing herself to espouse the unnatural and unhealthy thinking that has infected so many people outContinue reading “What Do Parents Do When Estranged From”

Estrangement, Time To Think & Less Got Done During A Pandemic

Being in the middle of a global pandemic gives us all time. Actually, it gives us all loads of time to think. Perhaps, it’s too much time to think. In spite of having the best of intentions of doing things around the house, like cleaning or tossing or whatever, we come to realize 2 things.Continue reading “Estrangement, Time To Think & Less Got Done During A Pandemic”

Estrangement: Professionals/Experts…STOP IT!

A letter to those doctors, experts, writers, so-called professionals about how you’re hurting people and why.

Time For Estranged Parents To Rise Up Against Estrangement

I feel like we all as parents, need to be “Norma Rae”. Where’s my table to stand upon and shout out to all that we need to stand up and scream out that we’ve had enough of bull? That’s what this is all about, pure bull. For few adults in this life, there’s little reasonContinue reading “Time For Estranged Parents To Rise Up Against Estrangement”

Parents Are People Too Not Gods: Estrangement And What I’ve Learned

I know that there’s pain and hurt behind the anger on both sides of the story and yet, I’ve been getting a flurry of comments, emails and notes from those who have estranged themselves from their parents and, or families. It’s sad to say the least to hear some of their stories as some ofContinue reading “Parents Are People Too Not Gods: Estrangement And What I’ve Learned”

Estrangement: Why It May Not Be The Right Thing!

Though I hate to date myself, there was a time in life when people got jobs and became wedded directly out of highschool. There was no secondary education for many people as only those who could afford it, got it. That was usually reserved for those whose parents sacrificed everything in their lives or mostContinue reading “Estrangement: Why It May Not Be The Right Thing!”

Why Estrangement Is Not The Answer: Getting Rid Others

When you walk away from someone or many people, you’re walking away for possibly ever. Remember that what matters now to you may not be the same down the road. Things change as do people. Life goes on with or without you no matter how powerful you may think that you are at the momentContinue reading “Why Estrangement Is Not The Answer: Getting Rid Others”

Why Positive Thinking Is Not A Miracle Worker Even With Estrangement

By now, much of the television old world, already knows that actress, Valerie Harper of “Mary Tyler Moore” and it’s spin-off series, “Rhoda” fame has lost her battle with cancer and has died at the age of 80 years of age. It’s taken me a week or more to write about her passing because itContinue reading “Why Positive Thinking Is Not A Miracle Worker Even With Estrangement”

Estrangement Reasoning Is More Often Than Not Irrational Thinking

Wondering why your adult has estranged from you is like wondering why the sky isn’t purple polka dotted. One cannot use rational thinking to deal with irrationality.

Toxic Messages From The Estranged Adult Child

How to deal with toxic messages from estranged adult children or child.