Be A Little More Selfish

"Generation A" was taught to take care of others and be respectful towards society in general and totality. Negativity was used to punish them if they didn't cooperate but, they often did because it was "the right thing to do".  They were brought up to serve others and their needs first. "Generation B" (Generation A's... Continue Reading →

You Don’t Matter

  1) You cannot make people care about you who don't care 2) When you don't matter, you don't matter. You can't change that fact. 3) Being caring, kind and nice to others doesn't necessarily get anywhere good. 4) The care, concern and effort you put into others will likely not be returned. Lesson learned... Continue Reading →

Celebrating Mother’s Or Father’s Day When Your Only Child Is Estranged From You

Mother's Day has passed and Father's Day is upon us but, what do you do if your only child has estranged herself from both of their parents?  Do you forget the day, treating it as any other day or, do you embrace the fact that you did all that you could as a parent and... Continue Reading →

There’s More To Life Than Donald Trump And Ralph Smart

I have been writing a blog for more than 5 years yet, with the hundreds of posts that I've written which all contain researched information, no other topics have received the type of readership that Donald Trump or Ralph Smart (Infinite Waters Diving Deep) have brought in. Perhaps, I should be grateful to both topics... Continue Reading →

Why We Worry

Worrying.  We all do it. Perhaps, it's a built-in response to wanting control over things that we cannot control? As humans, we all want control and worrying is possibly one's attempt at foreseeing everything that possibly could happen so that we can counter the not-so-good before it happens.  In short, are we in fear of... Continue Reading →

Being A Highly Sensitive Person Sucks But Embrace It

I talk...A LOT as many of you who read my blog might have noticed already.  That's because I feel the need to explain myself clearly so that no one misunderstands what I'm trying to say or why I'm saying it. I cry and analyze the crap out of everything.  A simple decision for some such... Continue Reading →

Is It Time To Stop Fighting Your Child’s Battles For Them

In watching a YouTube video made by a mom who wanted to go and fight her daughter's battle against a "bully", I couldn't help but remember my own child's trials and tribulations against bullies.  I used to step in and fight her battles for her.  Did I really do her any favours? First off, I... Continue Reading →

Shocking Discovery: You Don’t Owe Anyone Anything Nor Do They Owe You

Mother/Saint Teresa wasn't as completely unselfish as what we've been made to believe or she would have us believe.  Are you gasping at that statement yet? I'm sure that you are if you know anything about the woman. Yes, no doubt whatsoever she did many wonderful things for others throughout her life and devoted herself... Continue Reading →

How To Deal With An Estranged Child

It's Mother's Day but, I have a lot of negative emotions as a mother.  It's not just today but rather, it's every day.  I haven't seen my only child in over a year and a half.  Unfortunately, neither have her friends nor the rest of her family on both sides as she chose to be... Continue Reading →

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