Be A Little More Selfish

"Generation A" was taught to take care of others and be respectful towards society in general and totality. Negativity was used to punish them if they didn't cooperate but, they often did because it was "the right thing to do".  They were brought up to serve others and their needs first. "Generation B" (Generation A's... Continue Reading →

You Don’t Matter

  1) You cannot make people care about you who don't care 2) When you don't matter, you don't matter. You can't change that fact. 3) Being caring, kind and nice to others doesn't necessarily get anywhere good. 4) The care, concern and effort you put into others will likely not be returned. Lesson learned... Continue Reading →

Celebrating Mother’s Or Father’s Day When Your Only Child Is Estranged From You

Mother's Day has passed and Father's Day is upon us but, what do you do if your only child has estranged herself from both of their parents?  Do you forget the day, treating it as any other day or, do you embrace the fact that you did all that you could as a parent and... Continue Reading →

User Abuser Or Estranged Children Hurt Us As Parents

  When your child has chosen to estrange themselves from your life completely, missing Mother's Days, all holidays and your birthdays go by one by one, signifying that you're aging more by the day or especially, in times of crises within yourself or your world, there's a lot of heartache and sorrow to deal with.... Continue Reading →

Is It Time To Stop Fighting Your Child’s Battles For Them

In watching a YouTube video made by a mom who wanted to go and fight her daughter's battle against a "bully", I couldn't help but remember my own child's trials and tribulations against bullies.  I used to step in and fight her battles for her.  Did I really do her any favours? First off, I... Continue Reading →

How To Deal With An Estranged Child

It's Mother's Day but, I have a lot of negative emotions as a mother.  It's not just today but rather, it's every day.  I haven't seen my only child in over a year and a half.  Unfortunately, neither have her friends nor the rest of her family on both sides as she chose to be... Continue Reading →

Don’t Let Other People Whine On Your Shoulder Constantly

Breathe. Breathe in through your nose deeply now, exhale through your mouth slowly. Feeling better? No? Do it again and keep doing it until you start to feel a bit more relaxed. MELLOW, mellow....mellow. Do you have people in your life who seem to keep talking about the same problems, over and over again but,... Continue Reading →

Follow Yourself Not Someone Else’s Footsteps

I've never been one to follow "The Crowd" in much of anything in my life.  I've always dared to take a different path and experience what lays along that road.  Oftentimes, it's led me somewhere that most others wouldn't find. In not following the crowd mentality, I have taken flack from those who have joined... Continue Reading →

Doing This Will Change Your Life!

Hugs to everyone! Calmness, peace and serenity. Not mellow right now?  Take a moment to chill out. MELLOW, mellow, mellow and more mellow. Take a deep breath, let out the tension and relax. Now smile...even if you don't feel like it.  It's a Fake It Till You Make It way of getting yourself into a... Continue Reading →

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