Everyone is an individual. Circumstances are different. In other words, no 2 people are alike just as no 2 estrangements are the same. What is of an issue though are the questions of: 1. What if my adult or someone I know, know it's me reading and talking about this issue? 2. I can't comment... Continue Reading →
A lot of parents of estranged adults tend to be caught up in the idea that they also lose out on any grandchildren if there are any and they know of them. Reality says that when adult children make a decision to estrange themselves, without having been beaten mentally, emotionally or physically, they have also... Continue Reading →
A letter to those doctors, experts, writers, so-called professionals about how you're hurting people and why.
Are you not able to get your in-laws, parents, siblings or whomever, to do things your way or the way that you think things should be done? What about not being able to get whatever it is that you think you should be getting from others who are related to you? Here are a few... Continue Reading →
I feel like we all as parents, need to be "Norma Rae". Where's my table to stand upon and shout out to all that we need to stand up and scream out that we've had enough of bull? That's what this is all about, pure bull. For few adults in this life, there's little reason... Continue Reading →
As long as you know that there was no true abuse or neglect, what substantial reasons do adults have for estranging themselves from parents, siblings, families or such? Have you asked yourself that question? It may not be easy to see that many adults who have estranged themselves as well as anyone else who wants... Continue Reading →
Pointing fingers never works but being a cushion for everything doesn't work either When your adult child estranges from you without any explanation or one that is so far fetched that a parent has to scratch their heads in confusion, there's often someone or several who have created that situation in their minds that don't... Continue Reading →
I'm also ready for my close-up Mr. DeVille! Blake: "If I sit with a psychedelic drug in my hands and body every day, all day long, do I get to tell someone else that they can't drink alcohol? Do I have the right to tell other people that they have to put up with my... Continue Reading →