Minds Can’t Be Changed No Matter What

There’s a lot going on in this world today that we’re all either mad, depressed or upset at. It’s natural and normal to be in a not-so-great mental status. However, if you’re wondering if you have any worth in being here (ie: suicide or self-harm), not only do you and anyone else who feels thatContinue reading “Minds Can’t Be Changed No Matter What”

My Deceased Brother’s Still Playing Pranks On Me And Loving It

Today would have been my deceased brother’s 62nd birthday. I’ve wished him a happy birthday out of habit. We were close both in age as well as in friends, schools, thoughts and saw each other through so much in life so, it only seemed fitting for me and my husband (his brother-in-law) to wish himContinue reading “My Deceased Brother’s Still Playing Pranks On Me And Loving It”

Estrangement, Time To Think & Less Got Done During A Pandemic

Being in the middle of a global pandemic gives us all time. Actually, it gives us all loads of time to think. Perhaps, it’s too much time to think. In spite of having the best of intentions of doing things around the house, like cleaning or tossing or whatever, we come to realize 2 things.Continue reading “Estrangement, Time To Think & Less Got Done During A Pandemic”

Estrangement Reasons: Are You Giving Your Kids Too Much

If mothers didn’t exist, there wouldn’t be any one of us on this planet. Did anyone get that point? If fathers didn’t exist, there could be as many women in the world as one wanted but, without sperm there would be no human life. How grateful is one for the idea that all mothers aren’tContinue reading “Estrangement Reasons: Are You Giving Your Kids Too Much”

Covid-19 Makes Kids More Powerful

Being afraid of something and not fearing anything may sound like opposite ends of the spectrum but, they’re actually part of the same one. How can that be? While the entire world (or most of it) fight to level off the Covid-19 Pandemic, we have young people out on beaches, complaining that the virus hasContinue reading “Covid-19 Makes Kids More Powerful”

Estranged Adults Don’t Hold The Holy Grail To Parenting

A lot of parents of estranged adults tend to be caught up in the idea that they also lose out on any grandchildren if there are any and they know of them.  Reality says that when adult children make a decision to estrange themselves, without having been beaten mentally, emotionally or physically, they have alsoContinue reading “Estranged Adults Don’t Hold The Holy Grail To Parenting”

Grey Matter Still Works During Estrangement

Did you raise your child to have a brain and thinking of their own?  I mean, truly…do you believe that your now-adult child was raised with some sort of intelligence or are they totally reliant upon others to think for them? If you answered “YES” that you do believe that your adult offspring do haveContinue reading “Grey Matter Still Works During Estrangement”

Estrangement: Professionals/Experts…STOP IT!

A letter to those doctors, experts, writers, so-called professionals about how you’re hurting people and why.

The Correct Way To Work On Estranging Yourself

Are you not able to get your in-laws, parents, siblings or whomever, to do things your way or the way that you think things should be done? What about not being able to get whatever it is that you think you should be getting from others who are related to you? Here are a fewContinue reading “The Correct Way To Work On Estranging Yourself”

Why And How To Estrange From Your Parents

I’ve been making a huge mistake. I’m big enough to admit that I now get it and have been wrong all along. Adult Children Need To Estrange Themselves from their parents and here’s why and how to do it. Find something that you have a qualm about with your parent even if it’s not abuse.Continue reading “Why And How To Estrange From Your Parents”