Estrangement, Feeling Alone & Why Would You Want Them Back

What is it going to take for younger people to know that ignoring the words of both governments and parents is giving them some rights but, at a cost somehow or in some way? Forget the pandemic. These adults don’t believe that it exists, is politicized or it won’t affect them. They can do whateverContinue reading “Estrangement, Feeling Alone & Why Would You Want Them Back”

Why Estrangement Means That Adults Are Going To Have Issues To Deal With

When someone else blames you for their issues within their lives or themselves, it likely isn’t about you or anything that you’ve done. It’s out of your control. That’s likely because it has more to do with them and their choices or lack of them in Life. Yes, they can blame you or anyone elseContinue reading “Why Estrangement Means That Adults Are Going To Have Issues To Deal With”

Don’t Judge Others Because of Your Own Adults And Estrangement Factors

People who don’t have children or estranged adults, couldn’t possibly know what it’s like to be walking in the shoes of someone who has estranged adults and it shows. Theories are abundant as to how to raise a child and adult “child”. It’s uncanny how they tend to come out of the woodwork as thoughContinue reading “Don’t Judge Others Because of Your Own Adults And Estrangement Factors”

Minds Can’t Be Changed No Matter What

There’s a lot going on in this world today that we’re all either mad, depressed or upset at. It’s natural and normal to be in a not-so-great mental status. However, if you’re wondering if you have any worth in being here (ie: suicide or self-harm), not only do you and anyone else who feels thatContinue reading “Minds Can’t Be Changed No Matter What”

My Deceased Brother’s Still Playing Pranks On Me And Loving It

Today would have been my deceased brother’s 62nd birthday. I’ve wished him a happy birthday out of habit. We were close both in age as well as in friends, schools, thoughts and saw each other through so much in life so, it only seemed fitting for me and my husband (his brother-in-law) to wish himContinue reading “My Deceased Brother’s Still Playing Pranks On Me And Loving It”

Estrangement, Time To Think & Less Got Done During A Pandemic

Being in the middle of a global pandemic gives us all time. Actually, it gives us all loads of time to think. Perhaps, it’s too much time to think. In spite of having the best of intentions of doing things around the house, like cleaning or tossing or whatever, we come to realize 2 things.Continue reading “Estrangement, Time To Think & Less Got Done During A Pandemic”

Estrangement Reasons: Are You Giving Your Kids Too Much

If mothers didn’t exist, there wouldn’t be any one of us on this planet. Did anyone get that point? If fathers didn’t exist, there could be as many women in the world as one wanted but, without sperm there would be no human life. How grateful is one for the idea that all mothers aren’tContinue reading “Estrangement Reasons: Are You Giving Your Kids Too Much”

Covid-19 Makes Kids More Powerful

Being afraid of something and not fearing anything may sound like opposite ends of the spectrum but, they’re actually part of the same one. How can that be? While the entire world (or most of it) fight to level off the Covid-19 Pandemic, we have young people out on beaches, complaining that the virus hasContinue reading “Covid-19 Makes Kids More Powerful”

Estranged Adults Don’t Hold The Holy Grail To Parenting

A lot of parents of estranged adults tend to be caught up in the idea that they also lose out on any grandchildren if there are any and they know of them.  Reality says that when adult children make a decision to estrange themselves, without having been beaten mentally, emotionally or physically, they have alsoContinue reading “Estranged Adults Don’t Hold The Holy Grail To Parenting”

Grey Matter Still Works During Estrangement

Did you raise your child to have a brain and thinking of their own?  I mean, truly…do you believe that your now-adult child was raised with some sort of intelligence or are they totally reliant upon others to think for them? If you answered “YES” that you do believe that your adult offspring do haveContinue reading “Grey Matter Still Works During Estrangement”