Life Teaches Us Lessons Whether We Want Them or Not

There's no one walking this planet who hasn't fallen upon hard times, lost people they loved or cared about, taken ill, had emotional issues or whatever else one can add into the mix.  No matter what we all would love to think, no one can escape these things.  It doesn't matter how much money we... Continue Reading →

When The Sky Seems Like It Will Fall

I'm going to say this to get it off of my chest and shoulders. "I'm having a HARD time and I don't see an end to it in the near future, which only magnifies the whole experience further!"  You likely don't know what I mean, do you?  Or perhaps, you do?  Maybe, you are also... Continue Reading →

Helping: Doorway to Heaven Or Hell

For most of my life, I've tumbled somersaults for other people and mothered, mothered and mothered them.  Why, I don't know the answer to yet but, I do know that the only thing it's done is to both open a doorway for people to use me as well as to shun me when they don't... Continue Reading →

Jesus Christ I’m Not A Robot!

For the first 40 years of my life, I thought I was Jesus Christ. Has your draw dropped yet? No, I'm not insane or psychotic and I don't mean literally  but, I am extremely sensitive, a people pleaser (though you might not know it from by blog pieces), overly emotional, sentimental and, my dad's favourite... Continue Reading →

Helping Can Become An Addiction Or An Escape

Helping others is a noble cause and more often than not, people need and want help to some extent or another but, when it becomes a habit within oneself it's no longer about helping but, rather an outward expression of how one is feeling about themselves internally. There's a pay-off for chronic helpers in many... Continue Reading →

Why Are The People I’ve Done The Most For Not Around Anymore?

We all need to feel as though we matter.  As humans, we inherit a need to feel that we have some meaning, some purpose and most of all, others around us who truly appreciate us for who we are and not just what we can do for them.  Yet, all too often, we find ourselves,... Continue Reading →

How To Tell The Difference Between A Person In Need And A Psychic Vampire

I admit it.  I am a "Helpaholic".  I cannot stand knowing that someone is in trouble therefore, I put on my heroine cape and go leaping in to try to rescue them from the perils of pain.  The smallest whiff of someone being in trouble is enough to turn me into a wonder woman who... Continue Reading →

Are You A Helper Or A Doormat?

  Have you ever been dragged into a friend or family member's problems that's taken up so much of your time and energy that you've let go of what you needed to do for yourself, only to find them nowhere around after their problem has been solved? I am famous for allowing myself to feel... Continue Reading →

The Road To Hell Is Paved With Good Intentions

Insanity: Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. Albert Einstein There's no doubt then that I'm already insane. I've been doing the same thing most of my life and can't get it through my thick skull that I'm not going to get a different result. Ever have an Oprah "Aha... Continue Reading →

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