Writing Letters Doesn’t Solve Anything Nor Does Continuing To Take Flack

It’s been an interest of mine as to why people do the things that they do. Most of it comes through their own imagined issues with someone else, several others and, or through or with someone else’s help. In other words, they see what they want to see instead of what’s really there and whatContinue reading “Writing Letters Doesn’t Solve Anything Nor Does Continuing To Take Flack”

Words Mean Nothing: Why It May Be Time To Quit Trying

Covid-19 with its issues, fears etc., protests and riots every night for George Floyd, my nephew having surgery alone, my car breaking down and needing another used one on financing because we couldn’t afford it, the sewers backing up into our basement (more stuff gone), water pipes bursting and a lot of electronics gone, secondaryContinue reading “Words Mean Nothing: Why It May Be Time To Quit Trying”

I’m The Go-To Person In Times of Trouble

How to stop being the go-to for troubles only friend. Why am I always getting the short end of the stick with friends and family?

Stop Pleasing Others And Be Yourself

We all do it.  Unless we are a true Psychopath who cannot connect to their feelings, we all worry about what others think of us.  No one wants to be disliked, rejected or feel out of place with others.  Those are normal, natural feelings and oftentimes, fears for a lot of people but, the truthContinue reading “Stop Pleasing Others And Be Yourself”

Who Am I And What Is The Meaning of Life

For most of my life, I’ve lived it as a caregiver or “doing the right thing” so to speak.  That wasn’t by choice.  It was ingrained into me as a Life or Death type of response by a set of parents who couldn’t get their own lives together either as separate people or as aContinue reading “Who Am I And What Is The Meaning of Life”

Knowing When To Hold Or Fold Them When It Comes To Friend’s Problems

There are times when we all will have to choose between keeping a friendship and letting it go.  It shouldn’t be this way and normally, it isn’t but there are times when a friend gives you no choice but to accept that there is no choice and either way, can lead to an issue. TheContinue reading “Knowing When To Hold Or Fold Them When It Comes To Friend’s Problems”